Enjoy the Holidays

To all of my Faithful Followers, Thank You for taking the time out of your very busy schedules to read my monthly blog. Through the years I've written messages I feel deserve a second glance, and this is one of them. My family and friends know I love the Christmas season. My preparation gets earlier every year. This year, I started decorating on November 1st only because my family said October was too early; is it? Anyway, it may sound like a cliche, but there seems to be a different spirit in the air during the holidays. People are more kind and generous; families and friends get together. Special foods are shared. But sometimes when we try to plan the "perfect" events, we get too stressed to enjoy them.  As Thanksgiving, Christmas, Kwanzaa and New Year's Eve are quickly approaching, here are a few tips I've shared before, that may make your holidays more fun and less frantic.

Scale Back:  Unless you have a lot of household help, it can be difficult attempting the perfect Martha Stewart ambiance. I mean, who really needs a wreath made with fresh cranberries? Simple decorations can still be festive.

Simplify Gift Giving: Since my family is growing and our budgets are shrinking, we decided to draw names this year; literally picking names out of a hat. We've agreed spending more time together is better than spending more money.

Collaborate on Festivities:  Ask holiday guests to contribute to the party. Let them bring hors d'oeuvres or a dessert to your holiday event so you won't be responsible with all the cooking.

See the Holidays Through the Eyes of a Child: Most children want your presence instead of a present. Making memories like singing Christmas Carols as a family can bring more delight than a fancy toy. 

Give Yourself a Break: It may be difficult to find time for yourself, however, try. If you relax, your children, family and guests will be relaxed too.

Enjoy the Holidays!