A New Name

There are two well-known brothers in my community whose last name is Wise. And that name fits them perfectly. One is a Pastor of a large church; the other is a talented Musician and College Professor. Their children and grandchildren are just as gifted. That Wise name really represents who they are. That made me think: What does my name say about me?

Genesis 17:5 says, God told him, I am changing your name. It is no longer Abram (Exalted Father) but Abraham (Father of Nations) for that is what you will be. I have declared it.

Maybe you don't need a new car or a new wardrobe to define who you are. Maybe you need a New Name!

 

Watch Your Words

Hi Moms:
When I was a little girl, I had a friend we called Negative Nelly.  That wasn't her given name, but because she was always so negative, she had earned it.  It could have been raining donuts with sprinkles, diamonds or designer handbags, this girl would find a way to bring you down. Do you have anyone in your life like that or are you the groups Negative Nelly?
Have faith and know it's never too late to change your pessimistic ways. Let's start today.
If you are in a conversation with friends and you feel a negative word is about to pop out, do this simple exercise:  close your mouth. At first, you may have to physically put your hands on your mouth to hold in those negative words. Work your way up to where you'll only need a finger over your mouth to keep  the word  in. Eventually, you'll have the pure will  power to hold them in. And after a while, you'll begin to contribute positive words to the conversation.  What will your friends and family members think?  Give it a try, because no one likes a Negative Nelly.

A Message from N. Michelle Sutton  - The Mentor 4 Moms

Building Our Village One Mom at a Time!

All Teachers Make an Impact

Hi Moms:
My children have been blessed with some amazing teachers.  I hope you've had some positive experiences too.  But the most important teacher is your child's first teacher. And their first teacher is you!  How Moms handle family challenges;  how we deal with conflict and success; how we advocate and stand up for our child.  We make a permanent impact in the lives of our children everyday.  Think how your Mom affected your life.
A Scripture says, "Set an example of good works yourself, with integrity and dignity in your teaching".
Be a good example for your children with your words and your actions, because you are their First Teacher.

A Message from N. Michelle Sutton - The Mentor 4 Moms

Building Our Village One Mom at at Time!

Direction vs Dictating

Hi Moms:
It's hard to believe I have a  High School Senior. The time between Pre-School and High School went by so fast! And although I'll always offer her advice, I must learn she is entering adulthood, I can't force or dictate what decisions she must make throughout her life.
As parents, we are always our child's Advocate. We may hold their hand as they cross the street at the age of 4, but if we are still holding their hand at 34, Houston, we have a problem!
It's hard letting go. However, you know you've been a successful parent when you've planted the seeds and you've done your best to "Train up" your child so later you'll see them grow into outstanding adults.
Pray, keep the faith and know you have prepared them for their next level.

A Message from N. Michelle Sutton - The Mentor 4 Moms

Building Our Village One Mom at a Time!

Happy MLK Day!

Hi Moms:
As we honor Rev. Dr. Martin  Luther King, Jr. today, let's not only remember him for his incredible speech. Find books to share with our children, so they'll know more about the life of his amazing man. And as we discuss his dream today, let's design our dream for a lifetime! #MLKDay

A Message from N. Michelle Sutton - The Mentor 4 Moms

Building Our Village One Mom at a Time!

Truly Appreciated

Hi Moms:
All  of us have days where we don't know our value. No one said thanks when you served breakfast. Your boss didn't praise you for your outstanding presentation. Your children didn't help wash the dishes after dinner.  But Proverbs 31:29 says: "There are many virtuous and capable women in the world, but you surpass them all!" Your value isn't measured day to day; your value is forever!

Building Our Village One Mom @ a Time!

Thanks to Mr. Eli Williams of Hot Gospel 20

Hi Moms:

Thank you so much to Mr. Eli Williams of EWilliamsCommunications for letting me share my Mommy Messages - inspirational audio messages - on Hot Gospel 20 (HG20) with Eli Williams. HG20 is a weekly on-line radio program that shares music from the top gospel artists. The program reaches listeners across the country and around the world. Hot Gospel 20 is available at www.hotgospel20.com and via the free HG20 with Eli Williams mobile app, and on TuneIn internet radio. Listen to Hot Gospel 20 and be blessed!

Building Our Village One Mom @ a Time!

Girl's Night Out!

Hi Moms:

There is nothing like being with your Girlfriends! I mean the ones you can trust, tell your secrets to; those friends that have your back forever! To paraphrase John 15:13, there is no greater love than when someone will lay down their life for a friend. What friends do you love? Find ways to show love to them today.

Building Our Village One Mom @ a Time!

Slow Down

Hi Moms:
Some days, motherhood can be a complete blur! You don't even remember what you did the entire day and now it's bed time. But enjoy these days.  The time between pre-school and high school goes by way too fast. So slow down. Family time is special time.

Building Our Village One Mom @ a Time!

Ways to Win

Hi Moms:
I've been told, when you have haters, you must be doing something worthwhile.  Haters are afraid of you and are terrified by your potential. But don't let your enemies deflate you.  Use their insecurities to ignite your purpose!

Building Our Village One Mom @ a Time!

Daily Blessings

Hi Moms:

When your child receives a gift from Grandma, don't you expect her to say Thank You?  When a friendly stranger offers his seat on the bus, don't you say thanks?  It shouldn't take big things to make you grateful. Think of the blessings you get everyday - shelter, food, health and much more.  What are you thankful for? Find ways to give thanks this week.

Building Our Village One Mom @ a Time!

Watch your Words

Hi Moms:

When you hear a rumor at work, at your church or in your community, what do you do? Do you Ignore it - Do you add to it - Do you help spread it?  Next time a rumor begins, why not go to the source. Ask the question, "Is it true"?  It may begin a much needed conversation and end a lot of wasted time.

                                          Building our Village One Mom @ a Time!

Watch Your Words

Hi Moms:

Do these words sound familiar?:  "No one appreciates me!"; This situation will never change!"; "My children are so bad!" There is power in our words.  When you use negative words, you get negative results.  So watch what you say and know God has the ability to change any situation.  Change your words to:  "I am loved!"; "My life is getting better!"; "My children have a bright future!" Wait for changes to happen as you watch your words.

Building our Village One Mom @ a Time!